barely acknowledge me. No entitled adult to disrespect his father. All those stressful painful feelings came flooding back. I told my husband about a Facebook post that his son made about not wanting to a bad father like he feels my husband was. Broken families are complicated and his son’s mother was very angry after their divorce and passed that anger to her sons. Long story short , Jr has hated any woman his dad was with and I feel there was never a chance for me. He is now blaming me for alienating his dad and calling me a liar for things that were said and done. The irony of it all is that I wanted to mend the relationship problem between father and son before my time. I am sure that other family members have spread lies and discontent. All I can say is there are many of my husband’s family that will never have to worry about me again. And if any of you read this and see yourself, just know that you need to ask yourself why so many people that JW has touched are now liars, evil or plain bad. Why is she the only truthful one? To my husband’s son, know this. I love my husband with all my heart and you hated me from day one. You took things that did not belong to you , broke our stuff and just plain disrespected our home. You enjoyed our generosity and then kicked us in the teeth. You are angry that I didn’t send a card for your wedding or baby? How many of my birthdays did you acknowledge? Your father sent his congratulations and did what he could do. I owe you nothing. You got 5 grand for your wedding . Guess that wasn’t enough. No matter what your mother says , your dad paid his support and tried to be there when he could . Your mother hated me and hated any other woman in your dad’s life. I am not what your cousin and mother say I am and I tried to be a good friend to you. After enough disrespect from you , I just couldn’t anymore. Your dad was not the perfect father but you are not the perfect son. As your own son grows, you will find out how heartbreaking being a parent can be. You and your family were rude and dismissive of me at every opportunity. Be honest with yourself, were the so called lies really that far from the truth? You are angry and condescending to many people in this world. Nobody is good enough for you except for your sainted mother and your wife. Put yourself in my shoes and think of how you would feel if you were treated the way you treated me. You want to see me as the home wrecker who kept your parents apart. I read their divorce papers and what many others have told me, your parents were poison together. By the time I came along, it was long over. I spoke with your mother’s child support case worker and HE told me how angry and spiteful your mother was. So before you call me evil and a liar again, think about how many people have the same opinion of you and your mother that I do . It’s a lot more than you think. Finally, I wish upon you exactly the same kind of son that you were. I hope you get a taste of your own medicine and I hope your cousin sees this because I wish the same for her.
With that said , I wash my hands of that soul sucking tribe.
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